Have you ever have everything coming together as a perfect moment? A crystallized memory or a snapshot in time that captures the essence of total happiness? Sometimes the moment occurs during a wonderful meal with friends and family, sometimes on a trip or sometimes you just sit down and appreciate life and your surroundings.
This week I went back to Princeton, NJ for my 40th high school reunion. I couldn’t ask for a more perfect visit. The weather ranged from monsoon-like rains to hot and humid days, the food was average at best, and the cities of Philadelphia and New York were crowded, dirty and noisy. Yet it was a perfect stay since I was able to reconnect with old school friends and my love for Princeton.
When I was a child my first glimpse of Princeton was in the month of January. It was early evening, and the streets were slick and shiny from the snow run-off. The world was black and white with twinkling street lights that gave off the romance of gaslight. This time when I returned, the streets had been newly washed from the rain, night was falling, and the street lamps still held their magic, highlighting the beauty of the town. Once again, I was home.
It was a weekend of bike rides thru the majestic chestnut trees that lined the old streets and the institutions, of meeting with old friends and new partners, and of seeing the fresh and hopeful faces entering the university and parting with their parents. Overnight stays with girlfriends, breakfast with old friends and tears with close friends.
Quickly I realized that to these old and dear friends, nothing I could do or say would ever change their memories of me as fun short girl with long red hair. These were my deepest and fondest friendships, and that what ever happens to us in life, as best said by the Beatles in Across the Universe, “nothing’s gonna change my world”. So before I leave you with a wonderful recipe, inspired by the great Andy Delany, Princeton High School Class of ’69, here are the parting lyrics by John and Paul.
…Sounds of laughter shades of earth are ringing
Through my open views inviting and inciting me
Limitless undying love which shines around me like a
Million suns, it calls me on and on
Across the universe
Jai guru de va om
Nothing’s gonna change my world,
Nothing’s gonna change my world.
Limoncello Cardamom Tapioca Pudding
INGREDIENTS
1/3 cup of sugar
3 cups instant tapioca like Minute® Tapioca
2 ½ cups milk – whole or 2 percent
1 egg
¼ – ½ cup of Limoncello
1 teaspoon vanilla
For Whipping Cream
½ pint of heavy whipping cream
¼ cup of sugar
½ teaspoon vanilla
Cardamom
Sprigs of mint
DIRECTIONS
Mix tapioca, sugar, milk and egg in sauce pan – let stand for 5 minutes
While constantly stirring, cook on medium heat until mixture comes to a full boil
Remove from heat and add vanilla and limoncello and mix
Spoon into dishes and put plastic wrap on surface of pudding
Cool in refrigerator
Before servicing, make whipped cream – with mixer on highest setting beat cream, sugar and ½ teaspoon vanilla until the cream can hold up a spoon.
Spoon on top of the pudding.
Lightly sprinkle cardamom and garnish with mint.






Using parchment or wax paper, trace the bottom of the spring pan, cut and place. Then do the same for the sides of the spring pan. This is done so you can easily separate the spring pan from the charlotte. Split the ladyfingers and place it around the sides. Do the same for the bottom of the pan using torn pieces to cover any holes.